‘My boyfriend is a murderer, I love him so much that he became the stepfather of my child’

A lovelorn woman who rekindled a teenage romance with a convicted murderer says he is now her daughter’s stepfather.

Kat met her high school sweetheart Lazy when they were thirteen, but they lost touch after he moved away. So when he contacted Kat on Facebook three years ago and told her he was in prison, the pair decided to kickstart their relationship through prison visits, phone calls, letters and emails.

Lazy faces a lengthy prison sentence of life without parole and an additional 35 and a half years. But if he appeals, Kat says he can leave within eight months.

Kat, who posts videos on TikTok as katcsosaucyxo or Kat Tha Brat, said that even if her mother doesn’t approve of him, she will “still be with him.” She loves her “TikTok family,” but Kat said she gets “a lot of hate,” saying “people want to come for my motherhood.”

She told Love Don’t Judge: ‘I saw he was alive and it broke my heart. I have a feeling he thought we had become an official couple the first day we started talking. He called me his girlfriend and I was like, ‘you never asked me,’ and then he finally asked me on 3/16/21.”

Lazy became her daughter’s stepfather “because of their bond and relationship.” Kat was nervous at first, having never introduced her to another man before and “especially someone in prison”. Meanwhile, some of the feedback from the public has been negative, she said.

One person said: “Why are you taking that girl to jail to see a man who isn’t her father… motherfucker!” Another said: “You really need to wake up; this man is a loser.” Kat, from Nashua, New Hampshire, said: “I try not to let it affect me, but it does.”

In the chat with Love Don’t Judge, she receives a call from “a captured person” who turns out to be Lazy and calls Kat. Kat asked him if he felt guilty for starting a relationship with her in prison. He replied, “No, I didn’t,” as just because he was in prison didn’t mean he “wasn’t allowed to continue his life.”

He said: “When I finally found her on Facebook and she contacted me it was definitely a long time ago. I really love being Bella’s stepfather because I don’t have any biological children of my own and I always wanted to have some.

“I love her very much, and the doubts your mother has about our relationship and me, my completely honest answer is that I really don’t care because how she feels and how she is – she has nothing to do with our relationship.”

Later in the video, Kat’s mother, who she says is “not happy”, pays her a visit. Her mother said she didn’t find out the lovebirds were talking until six months after he went to prison. Kat said it “breaks” her heart that she can’t talk to her about the relationship and that she wants her mother to give Lazy a “chance.”

Kat said, “I’m not a child; I’m an adult and I deserve happiness just like everyone else.” On the other hand, her mother said that she is “not saying he is a bad person,” but if he “gets out of prison,” he has to show that he has “changed everything,” and that he is a “good man.” wants to be for her. daughter and granddaughter.